CHASTITY & KEYHOLDING ~ THE MEANING
Orgasm denial and chastity are other forms of control used
for humiliation purposes as well as increasing the level
and intensity of submission.
Chastity is about denying your penis sexual stimulation,
and giving control of your penis & orgasms to another,
your Keyholder. Chastity is not about total abstinence
because the chaste man has a release date and an orgasm
to look forward to. The release date, and control of
orgasm is what makes chastity work. In the intrim the
chaste will perform a variety of duties; daily tasks and
rituals as instructed by the Keyholder as well as journaling
his experience for Her reading pleasure.


The level of frustration from the orgasm denial, teasing and
tormenting without release causes a deeper level of submission
for the chaste. The Power Exchange is a very intense aphrodisiac
for both the chaste and his Mistress. He learns that the
pleasure and happiness of his Keyholder is his main priority.
Male chastity is not merely about your Keyholder controlling
your sexual activity, but whether or not She will grant you
permission to orgasm for Her.


Learning that the the energy and effort that was once dedicated
to self-pleasure and masturbating is now spent paying attention
to your Keyholder and Her pleasures are essential.
Time spent in lockdown brings a clearer perspective, especially
for the chronic masturbator. He realizes that the act of
masturbation is a selfish act that he has allowed to become
his addiction and crutch for dealing with the day to day
stresses that life brings. He also learns that he has lost
his perspective as to his purpose in life, which of course
is to be the best submissive to his Domme. Dedicating his time,
energy, thoughts and attention to his Mistress with only Her
needs in mind means you are submitting heart, mind, body,
soul and spirit. This submission is your gift. It is your
purpose in life.


Many chastity/Keyholder relationships will have a chastity
contract, signed and agreed by both which will clearly state
what is expected of the chaste male, the slave,
as well as the responsibilities of the Keyholder,
length of lockdown and the specific terms and
financial obligations required of the slave during chastity.
Some Keyholders require that the chaste male
perform a “milking” session prior to being
locked down.

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