FETISH 101
TERMS & DEFINITIONS FROM THE FETISH LIFESTYLE
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FETISH: Meaning or pertaining to an excessive sexual focus on an object of fixation.
TYPES OF FETISHES
Abasiophilia:
People with impaired movement cause arousal
Acrotomophilia:
The person is sexually aroused by the sight of an amputation usually of a whole arm or leg.
Adolescentilism:
The person is aroused by impersonating both the dress and behavior of an adolescent.
Agalmatophilia:
Statues, mannequins, and anything with immobility cause arousal
Andromimetophilia:
A woman who is sexually aroused by impersonating a man. They purposefully look like and act like a man.
Apotemnophilia:
This person is sexually aroused by having a part of their body amputated either by themselves or someone else. The memory of the amputation can serve to arouse them for years. It is the act of having an extremity amputated that is arousing; thus, they have to be awake during the process.
Asphyxiophilia:
This is sexual arousal caused by loss of control over your ability to breathe. Self strangulation or allowing another person to asphyxiate you.
Autagonistophilia:
Unlike exhibitionism where the person intentionally exposes their genitals to an unsuspecting stranger, in this paraphilia the person creates situations in which other people could see them in the nude if the person wanted to. For example, it would be like leaving your curtains open and walking around the house naked in hopes that someone would peep in the windows. It is the thought that someone may be watching that is sexually arousing.
Autassassinophilia:
The person is sexually aroused by putting themselves in situations in which they may be killed. They really have to feel they are in danger in order to be sexually aroused. Unfortunately, many of them get killed in the process.
Autogynephilia:
Biological male imagining himself as a woman
Autonepiophilia:
This is the same thing as infantilism.
In this paraphilia the person is sexually aroused by the idea of being raped. This is scripted and planned out ahead of time with a partner. The person does not actually want to be raped by a strange.
Candaulism:
Is a sexual practice or fantasy in which a man exposes his female partner, or images of her, to other people for their voyeuristic pleasure
Catheterophila:
The person is sexually aroused by the insertion of a catheter.
Chrematistophilia:
This person can only become sexually aroused if they are being blackmailed into it.
Chronophilia:
When partners are of a widely differing chronological age
Coprophilia:
Smearing human feces on yourself or having someone smear it on you causing sexual arousal.
Coprophagia:
Eating and ingesting human feces.
Cuckold:
A man whose wife is unfaithful & flaunts it to him.
Decryphilia:
Aroused by tears or crying
Dendrophilia:
Aroused by trees
Emetophilia:
Sexual arousal about vomit
Ephebophilia:
This is a form of pedophilia, but the person is very specific in the size, shape, and amount of body hair the pre-pubescent child has.
Erotophonophilia:
These people are dangerous. They are sexually aroused by attempts not just thoughts of killing someone.
Formicophilia:
Sexual arousal is caused by having insects crawl on their genitals.
Frotteurism:
Sexually excited by rubbing against a non-consenting person
Gerontophilia:
The person is only sexually aroused by a significantly older person. There has to be at least a 15 year difference between their ages.
Gynemimetophilia:
A person who is sexually aroused by a female impersonator.
Hebephilia:
Sexually obsessed by thoughts of sex with pubescent children
Hybristophilia:
Sexual relations with a convicted criminal.
Hyphephilia:
Touching or rubbing a human or non human object is essential for achieving sexual arousal.
Hypoxphilia:
The same as asphyxiophilia.
Infantilism:
Dressing as an infant and acting the role of a child under two years old is sexually arousing. This can including some or all body hair and the hiring of a nurse or nanny to take care of you.
Kleptophilia:
Similar to kleptomania, kleptophilia results in sexual arousal from stealing not just thrill seeking.
Klismaphilia:
Getting an enema is sexually arousing. More liquid is associated with greater pleasure.
Lactaphilia:
Excited by lactating women and breast milk
Liquidophilia:
Gets off on immersing genitals in liquids
Macrophilia:
Giants or giantess fetish
Mammaphilia:
Aroused by breasts; i.e. a tit man
Masochism:
Desiring to suffer, be beating, bound, or otherwise humiliated.
Menophilia:
Turned on by a menstruating woman
Mixophilia:
The person likes to watch their partner or themselves engage in sexual activity. Usually this means watching themselves in a mirror.
Morphophilia:
Peculiar body shapes and sizes are sexually arousing such as heavy, short, dwarfism, etc.
Mucophilia:
Turned on by mucus
Mysophilia:
The person is sexually aroused by dirt, mud, or filth.
Narratophilia:
Telling dirty stories is sexually arousing.
Nasophilia:
Aroused by noses
Necrophilia:
Engaging in sexual activities with dead people.
Nepiophilia:
The person is sexually aroused by infants. This can range from newborns to about two years old.
Olfactophilia:
The person is sexually aroused by body smells. Usually inserting finger anus, vagina, etc. and smelling it during sex.
Partialism:
Turned on by specific, non-gential body parts
Pedophilia:
Sexually attracted to prepubescent children
Peodeiktophilia:
Gets off on exposing one’s penis
Pedovestism:
Sexually aroused by dressing like a child
Pictohilia:
Watching X-rated films is sexually arousing.
Pyrophilia:
Sexually aroused by fire
Raptophilia:
Gets off on raping
Salirophilia:
Soiling or dirtying others
Scoptophilia:
Observing other’s sexual activites
Somnophilia:
The person can only maintain sexual arousal while having sex with someone who is sleeping. If the person wakes up they loose interest.
Stigmatophilia:
Body piercing and tattooing but not ear piercing is sexually arousing.
Symphorphilia:
Natural disasters are sexually arousing.
Telephonicophilia:
Talking dirty on the phone or being talked to lewdly.
Trichophilia:
Turned on by long hair
Troilism:
Is obtaining sexual arousal and gratification by sharing a sexual partner (or close relative) while watching or looking on. Being cuckolded by their partner by having sex with others. A troilist becomes aroused and gratified by the “sharing”.
Urolagnia:
Excited by urination
Urophilia:
Being urinated on or urinating on someone. Golden showers
Ursusagalmatophilia:
Sexually aroused by Teddy bears
Vampirism:
Drawing or Drinking Blood
Vorarephilia:
Eating or being eaten by others
Wittol:
A man who knows or even condones his wife’s enjoyment of coitus with another man or men, enjoys the http://cuckold-mistress-hotline.com/blog/fetish-fyi/humiliation/humiliation of it. A contented cuckold
Zoophilia:
The person wants to be treated like an animal wearing a collar and even eating out of an animals dish. This is different from bestiality in which the person wants to have sex with an animal.
BDSM TERMS & DEFINITIONS
AGE PLAY:
Role-playing the persona of someone substantially younger (or sometimes older) than your actual age.
BONDAGE:
Physical materials applied to a submissive or slave to restrain their ability to move and/or to otherwise restrict them. Also, the act of placing the submissive or slave in such materials.
BOTTOM:
A slang term for a submissive and/or masochist. Many people use the word “bottom” to mean specifically someone who enjoys being given various sensations, as opposed to a “submissive”, who enjoys being controlled.
BOTTOM SPACE:
The psychological “head space” or attitude of being submissive.
BOY:
A submissive (often, but not always, male) who relates to their dominant in a child-to parent mode. More common among gay men and lesbians.
BRAT:
A submissive who enjoys rebelling in a childlike way against their dominant. Brats are fairly common in the spanking scene.
CONSENSUAL:
An activity done with the consent of adults competent to give that consent. One of the central features of SM play.
COUNTING GAMES:
Rituals engaged in during whipping, flogging, spanking , or during other forms of flagellation, in which the submissive (or slave) is required to keep count f the number of strokes delivered, often thanking the Master after each one and asking for more. Example: “Thats five, Sir. Thank you Sir, Sir, please may I have another, Sir?”
DADDY:
A dominant (usally, but not always, male) who has a submissive “boy” and who relates to that submissive in a parent/child mode. More common among gay men and lesbians, but gaining currency among heterosexuals and bisexuals as well.
DISCIPLINE:
Training by a Master in how they wish their submissive or slave to behave. Also, the punishment and correction administered by the Master when the submissive fails to act in the proper manner.
DOMINANT:
One who enjoys assuming control. One who decidees what happens and when. A dominant may or may not be sadistic.
FETISH:
The dictionary’s definition of fetish is excessive sexual focus on an object of fixation. Fetish fashion covers a wide range of fabrics such as leather, PVC, vinyl, rubber, and latex. It also includes items such as stiletto heels, thigh high boots, corsets and bondage gear or other items of clothing that one might become fixated on. See BDSM.
FLAGELLATION:
The general act of one person striking another, usually in an erotic context. Includes spanking, paddling, flogging and whipping.
FLOGGER:
A multi-tailed whip in which the tails are long, flat strips of leather or a similarly flexible material.
HUMILIATION:
Activities which cause the submissive to feel shame, embarrassment, or degradation. Varies widely from person to person. Possibly psychologically explosive..
MASTER:
A term for a male dominant. Often used as a term of address, such as “Master Tom”. It is often considered somewhat rude to address a man by this term without being first given permission to do so.
MASTER-slave RELATIONSHIP:
An ongoing SM relationship in which the slave is submissive to a male dominant.
MONDAY MORNING REBOUND SYNDROME:
Feelings of remorse, disgust, fear, and so forth that sometimes emerge hours or days after a person willingly, and often lustily, takes part in SM play.
MUMMIFICATION:
Immobilizing bondage, usally done by wrapping the submissive in many coils of materials such as plastic wrap, or by placing the submissive in a body bag designed for this purpose.
NOVICE:
A person just beginning to learn about and explore SM. Often treated with special kindness and attention by the more experienced members of the community or by the MASTER.
SADIST:
As loosely defined with the SM Community, a person who specifically enjoys administering pain. A person may be dominant without being sadistic. It’s also possible to be sadistic without being dominant.
SADOMASOCHISM:
A rather vague term referring generally to fantasies and experiences regarding the introduction of domination, submission, bondage, sadism, masochism, humiliation, and related activities into erotic play.
SAFEWORD:
A specific word or other signal used, by prior agreement, to indicate that things are “really” becoming too intense for the person. Usally used by the submissive or slave, but may also be used by the dominant. “Safeword” itself is sometimes used at SM parties to signal a desire for outside intervention.
SLAVE:
A person who has an on-going, structured relationship with a dominant or Master. One who assumes the submissive role, often in a highly developed and committed way to a particular person. Cling someone “my slave” generally indicates a relatively sophisticated, ongoing relationship between the two of you.
SUBMISSIVE:
One who yields control. One who obeys orders and may permit themselves to be bound if doing so pleases their dominant or Master.
TOP’S DISEASE:
An unwarranted attitude of superiority taken by a domiant. Believing that bottoms are somehow inferior and treating them so in either obvious or subtle ways. Usually a sign of insecurity or ignorance. Dominants who suffer from Top’s Disease often (surprise, surprise) complain about how hard it is to find people willing to play with them. a mirror image of this syndrome is called Bottom’s Disease.
TWO SQUEEZES:
A “squeeze signal” between players used to non-verbally signal that, “I’m all right.”
WORSHIP:
To adore the personage of the dominant. Often combined with performing some service to the dominant’s body such as massaging, kissing, or licking their feet or boots, massaging their body, bathing them. Explicitly sexual activity, such as performing oral sex on the dominant, may or may not be a part of such play.
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